A misunderstanding has happened & tis kinda leads to a mini explosion! Tis misunderstanding has indeed makes me feel a bit upset although i m not the main characters of tis issue.

In tis situation, i feel tat neither of them are wrong. It is mainly a clear cut miscommuncation. Hence, both have misunderstood each other intentions. Indeed, sometimes words are not passed down correctly or say out properly tat leads to misunderstandings. Good intentions are often mislead and leads to disagreements n bad blood. Tis is sad :(

No one is the exact mirror reflection of each other and the worm in the other person's stomach. Sometimes we need to tik both sides of the coins. Tik abt how u will feel if u r in other pple shoes..Try to look at it at another angle. By understanding the whole situation may give u a better understanding y the person reacted in tis manner.

When being misunderstood, would u rather
1) Clarify first before the person gets the wrong idea?
2) Stay silent? Keep all unhappiness to urself. Coz the more u say, the more the other party may tik u finding excuses.
3) Clarify rite after the when u are already being misunderstood u? Sometimes the other party still may nt understand as they are still in an angry/upset mood.
4) Give some time & choose a good timing to to clarify after the case has ended. Usu the other party has already cooled down.
5) Dun bother to clarify and forget abt the whole incident. U are wat u are. Take it or leave it.

For me, my choice will be 1), 3) and 4). I will choose to clarify as friends and sisters are highly impt to me. I will not wish to destroy any friendship or sisterhood.

Worse, sometimes u are being misunderstood without knowing.. Then all tis options does nt applies anymore as there is no chance of verdict. I will rather a person to say out wat they really feel than keeping in their heart. Sometimes we may overlook on our own bad pts without knowing. Tis is when we need friends to give us a gentle reminder. Its all abt self improving.

P.S: Tis entry is solely my own opinion, does not include the views of other pple....

"LiFe Is UnCeRtAiN... ";

" If U ArE In HaPpInEsS, TrY To PrOlOnG It...";

" If U ArE In SaDnEsS, TrY To ShOrTeN It By WaLkIng OuT Of It... ";

" ChErIsH WaT Is ArOuNd YoU... ";

" YoU OnLy NoE WaT U HaVe GoT WhEn U HaV LoSt It... ";

" NeVeR TaKe AnYoNe FoR GrAnTeD...";

" OnE DaY U MaY WaKe Up To ReAlIsE ThAt U HaVe LoSt A DiAmOnD WhIlE BuSy CoLlEcTiNg StOnEs...";

" HaPpInEsS Is LoSt WhEn AnY ThOuGhTs Of EnVy Or HaTrEd CrEePs In. ThOuGhTs Of LoVe AnD GoOd WiShEs CuRe SoRrOw....";

Hates liars, cheaters, hypocrites, snobbish pigs & people who trys to act smart.

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