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Monday, September 18, 2006
Pui Pui Puiiiiiiiiiii! Early morning saw 1 pervert at my workplace. KNS de. I was washing my cup in the ladies and took a glance out of the ladies window to check if it is raining soon. To my disgustment, i saw 1 NAKED guy with tattoos staring at me in the male's washroom at the tower opposite. Tik tis guy is crazy de..he was waving at me & meddling with his male organ on purpose. Immediately, i rushed back to my office and informed my other colleagues as well as the management's security guards. The guards couldn't find him when they got there. He must have ran away. Dammit! According to the security guards, they already knew abt tis man. They suspect he has a mental problem. He was always spotted roaming ard tat level. Worse, there were even complaints that he even entered the female washroom on tat floor before. Wao lao..makes me ponder what the guards are doing since there were many complaints before. Oeiii guards, sleeping ah? Guess the best prevention is to go ladies in pairs. Really have to beware from now onwards ! Later part of today, i left work early to rest as i was having severe gastric pain again. Hate gastric..Keep coming to haunt me. Luckily, the nice doctor gave me 2 days MC so i can have ample rest. I must have been feeling too disgusted by the scene tat happened tis morning until my gastric juices keep secreting out. Haha.
What a suay day..My 4D & ToTo also not so accurate :(
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Sunday, September 17, 2006
The new S.H.E
The guys...
Trying to act hip hop..i look so un-natural hor.
It was Mark's bdae on the 11th Sept, 911 (so easy to remember tis date). We had a belated bdae celebration @ Partyworld Orchard with the ki siao gang, namely Alex, Iris, Andy, Karen, Dear Dear, me and of coz the limelight of the nite, the bdae boy. 26 years old liao ah...Not young liao hor...Faster find 1 nice gal & get married soon..heehee. We specially bought a Parker pen as his bdae present. Believing that he will appreciate and like it, for it will be of good use to him.
Hilariously tat nite, Mark lost his way upon returning from the washroom twice. Next, Dear Dear had visited the washroom 5 times throughout the whole session. ~Weak bladder~ As for Karen, she had a marathon session with Alex and Mark, having sung the same song "屋顶" continously till she was breathless. Finally, we had taken some photos with Andy's HP camera and still waiting for him to send me those pics. Hence, so no pictures will be posted at the moment.
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If u have the time, please read, this is A BEAUTIFUL PIECE...
TRUST is a very important factor for all relationships. When trust is broken, it is the end of the relationship. Lack of trust leads to suspicion, suspicion generates anger, anger causes enmity and enmity may result in separation. A telephone operator told me that one day she received a phone call. She answered, "Public Utilities Board." There was silence. She repeated, "PUB." There was still no answer. When she was going to cut off the line, she Heard a lady's voice, "Oh, so this is PUB. Sorry , I got the number from my Husband's pocket but I do not know whose number it is." Without mutual trust, just imagine what will happen to the couple if the telephone operator answered with just "hello" instead of "PUB"
NO POINTING FINGERS A man asked his father-in-law, "Many people praised you for a successful marriage. Could you please share with me your secret?" The father-in-law answered in a smile, "Never criticize your wife for her shortcomings or when she does something wrong. Always bear in mind that because of her shortcomings and weaknesses, she could not find a better husband than you." We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many people are afraid of losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he would look around to find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is the start of a war. We should always remember that when we point one finger at a person, the other four fingers are pointing at ourselves. If we forgive the others, others will ignore our mistake too.
NO OVERPOWERING Many relationships fail because one party tries to overpower another,or demands too much. People in love tend to think that love will conquer all and their spouses will change the bad habits after marriage. Actually, this is not the case. There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "It is easier to reshape a mountain or a river than a person's character." It is not easy to change. Thus, having high expectation on changing the spouse character will cause disappointment and unpleasantness. It would be less painful to change ourselves and lower our expectations..
RIGHT SPEECH There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "A speech will either prosper or ruin a nation." Many relationships break off because of wrong speech. When a couple is too close with each other,we always forget mutual respect and courtesy. We may say anything without considering if it would hurt the other party. A friend and her millionaire husband visited their construction site. A worker who wore a helmet saw her and shouted,"Hi, Emily! Remember me? We used to date in the secondary school." On the way home, her millionaire husband teased her, "Luckily you married me.Otherwise you will be the wife of a construction worker." She answered ,"You should appreciate that you married me. Otherwise, he will be the millionaire and not you." Frequently exchanging these remarks plants the seed for a bad relationship. It's like a broken egg - cannot be reversed.
PERSONAL PERCEPTION Different people have different perception. One man's meat could be another man's poison. A couple bought a donkey from the market. On the way home,a boy commented, "Very stupid. Why neither of them ride on the donkey?"Upon hearing that, the husband let the wife ride on the donkey. He walked besides them. Later, an old man saw it and commented, "The husband is the head of family. How can the wife ride on the donkey while the husband is on foot?" Hearing this, the wife quickly got down and let the husband ride on the donkey. Further on the way home, they met an old Lady. She commented, "How can the man ride on the donkey but let the wife walk. He is no gentleman." The husband thus quickly asked the wife to join him on the donkey. Then, they met a young man. He commented, "Poor donkey, how can you hold up the weight of two persons. They are cruel to you." Hearing that, the husband and wife immediately climbed down from the donkey and carried it on their shoulders. It seems to be the only choice left. Later, on a narrow bridge, the donkey was frightened and struggled. They lost their balance and fell into the river. You can never have everyone praise you, nor will everyone condemn you. Never in the past, not at present, and never will be in the future. Thus, do not be too bothered by others words if our conscience is clear..
BE PATIENT This is a true story which happened in the States. A man came out of his home to admire his new truck. To his puzzlement, his three-year-old son was happily hammering dents into the shiny paint of the truck. The man ran to his son, knocked him away, hammered the little boy's hands into pulp as punishment. When the father calmed down, he rushed his son to the hospital. Although the doctor tried desperately to save the crushed bones, he finally had to amputate the fingers from both the boy's hands. When the boy woke up from the surgery & saw his bandaged stubs, he innocently said, " Daddy,I'm sorry about your truck." Then he asked, "but when are my fingers going to grow back?" The father went home & committed suicide. Think about this story the next time someone steps on your feet or u wish to take revenge. Think first before u lose your patience with someone u love. Trucks can be repaired.. Broken bones & hurt feelings often can't. Too often we fail to recognize the difference between the person and the performance. We forget that forgiveness is greater than revenge. People make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes. But the actions we take while in a rage will haunt us forever.
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Wednesday, September 06, 2006
Work work work...It is all about work and that is what is taking up most of my time. It's damn tiring. My body is starting to complain about the early mornings and the 2 hrs plus journey each day. I am just like a dead log when i reached home. Weekends are the only time i can have ample rest at home with my darling. However, I will still feel the tiredness no matter how much i sleep or rest. I feel relatively like a car running out of batteries. Lost my motivations. This can be due to my monotonous work. My office is kinda quiet these days with less jokes and laughters. Most of them has the "serious" looks on their faces as there is shortage of manpower. Everyone has increasing work load to look after including me. Stress ah! Oh boy, I do need a break!No doubt, everyone has their own unhappiness and stress to deal with. Perhaps, i am just nagging here and seeking peace for my mind. Haiz...
So how do you react when u are been faced with work stress? Below are some tips which may be helpful:
1) PLAN AHEAD, ASK QUESTIONS ABOUT RESPONSIBILITIES, DEADLINES,EXPECATIONS.
Be positive. Questions should show that you want to do the job better. If a workload is too much, say so. Good supervisors want employees to do well.
2) AVOID OFFICE GOSSIP AND CONSTANTLY NEGATIVE PEOPLE
Just say "Oh"when they start talking. Too much negativity affects morale and is contagious.
3) SEEK SOMEONE OUT WHO CAN PROVIDE A PEP TALK OR ENCOURAGEMENT
4) SET PRIORITIES
If e-mail is essential set aside time for it but answer in a few short sentences and try to check it only at select points during the day.
5) REFOCUS.
Look at what you contribute to by working, whether it's a larger goal or your family's well-being
6) BE CLEAR THAT YOUR JOB IS NOT YOU.
You are a person with a job. Remember everything else in your life:friends,hobbies,family
7) REWARD ACCOMPLISHMENT
If you are a boss. It's amazing what a little praise can do.
8) GET ENOUGH SLEEP
Trading a half-hour of TV for extra sleep can change attitudes.
9) SET ASIDE A TIME TO PLAY
Play is an important aspect of being human, even if it's as simple as watching a movie with your children.
10) CHANGE YOUR SCENERY
Go to another room or take a walk outside.Take time off. Schedule vacations or even just a mental-health day before you get overwhelmed
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Tuesday, September 05, 2006
Darling finally gotten a new job after 1 month of unemployment. So glad for him. Somemore it is a perm job and in a centralised location. Muahhahhaaa! Hope everything goes well for him. Jia you!
Will be meeting my beloved ki-siao gang friends 2molo..most likely we will be hitting on the new movie "The Devil Wear Prada". I heard from radio that the rating for this show is quite good. i guess it's worth a try.
More information:
http://www.gv.com.sg/Booking/movies/moviedetails_7109.htm
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